#RELATIONSHIPFRIDAY: 11 signs a shy guy likes you

When he is caught looking at you, he pretends to look behind you or past you, then notice carefully, he is still looking at you!
1. He tends to choose a place where you are always in front of his sight: If he has many options but always chooses to sit or be at a spot where he can easily and silently watch you, then, ‘ahem ahem’, there is a possibility that he likes you! Does that happen in your case? Well if it does, the shy guy is into you signs are at their beginning!

2. There is frequent eye contact: You always notice him watch you, and then, when you look back at him, he pretends to look behind you or starts looking elsewhere, like the floor for example! That seems to be their favorite spot for escape. This is the topmost among the signs a shy guy likes you! When he is caught looking at you, he pretends to look behind you or past you, then notice carefully, he is still looking at you! You can make out from his eyes that he wasn’t just looking at you, he waswatchingyou.

3. His body language is different towards you: Notice the body language. He is all cool and open with others, but, when it comes to you, he turns out to be very quiet, shy, hesitant and reluctant to be friendly with you. Now, you will tend to misunderstand this as if the guy is trying to ignore you and that the guy doesn’t like you. But he is madly head over heels for you! That’s why he can’t get the courage to speak to you or even look at you when he knows you are looking at him. If you notice carefully, his face will go red and palms will go all wet when you are around. Don’t try to touch his palms to check on that, he will definitely freak out!

4. Ends up asking dumb questions: It’s not that he is going to purposely try to start a conversation with you, but if (unfortunately or fortunately for him) a situation occurs wherein he needs to say something, he just ends up asking a dumb open ended question!! and when you give a reply (figuring out in your mind what was he meaning to ask you), he just stays quiet and takes an excuse from you after a period of silence. Bottom line is, if he is not able to start a conversation with you, but has no intentions to end it too, he definitely likes you. Don’t forget to notice the smile on his face and the glitter in his eyes. The guy will be blushing all the time he is around you.

5. Bumps into you all the time: You end up seeing him almost everywhere you go! You can’t miss out on this sign because it cannot be a coincidence. I mean do you expect him to be at all the places that you visit, at the same time as yours and then believe it to be coincidence? Wake up! This is a sure sign that he likes you and that’s why is following your schedule so that you notice him and that he doesn’t get to miss a chance to observe you closely! (So sweet)

6. Do you get anonymous notes?: This is something that a shy guy would think 1000 times before doing! But then he wants to tell you how he feels about you but yet doesn’t want it to be too obvious. If you see notes on your desk saying,”you’re beautiful” or “you look pretty”, your shy guy is flirting with you signs are on!

7. Becomes loud so that you notice him: As I mentioned earlier, he will make sure that you are within his line of vision wherever he sits or settles, be it school, workplace or social gatherings. He is too scared to tell it to you on your face, but within, he wants your attention desperately! So, while he is talking to his friends, colleagues, he will try to be a little louder than required so that your attention goes to him, even if for a minute, at least you noticed him, didn’t you?

8. You are his all time favorite topic: If he can’t stop talking about you to his close friends and can go on and on and on with it, he is definitely got the hots for you! If you guys happen to have some common friends, check with them. It might surprise you that the shy guy is attracted to you signs are genuine and that you are the only one in his mind and he is desperate to enter your heart!

9. He does small and sweet gestures: One of the signs a shy guy likes you is the small favors and gestures that he will do for you even when they are not required. For Example, he will help you pick up things that you might have dropped. Or he will keep the lift waiting for you. Or may be compliment you each and every time, even when not required! (ha ha) Get coffee for you at your desk, the list can go on and on and on.

10. He gets uncomfortable when other guys talk to you: If you are still confused as to how to tell if a shy guy likes you, this can be the sign to look for, and he is totally, surely, madly into you, and that’s why can’t even bear the sight of you being with someone else! There is this feeling of insecurity in his mind that someone else might just sweep you away from him, and so he gets all uncomfortable and weird.

11. Avoid you in the group: The next sign to check for is this. If you and your ‘shy guy’ happens to be in one group, and he ends up talking to everyone but YOU, don’t think that he hates you. It’s an obvious sign that he has feelings for you and that he gets paranoid and shaky from the thought of even talking to you. I know it’s weird, but I don’t know what makes the shy guys think that girls are unapproachable. I think, that they think you are their angel from heaven and the thought of you rejecting him scares the hell out of him.


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